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How do you deal with rejection? - Max69 - 06-21-2024
How do you deal with rejection? I'd be pleased to hear your stories from all kinds of perspectives. Have you ever experienced rejection from clients and how do you deal with it? Does this happen often, and if I may asky, why? Do you find that if you like someone more, like an instant connection, the service is better or is it the same for everyone?
I'd love to hear from customer side as well, have you ever sent a sw home, and if so, why? How did she react?
I'm very much curious about your answers and stories.
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - firestorm2012 - 06-21-2024
(06-21-2024, 06:16 AM)Max69 Wrote: How do you deal with rejection? I'd be pleased to hear your stories from all kinds of perspectives. Have you ever experienced rejection from clients and how do you deal with it? Does this happen often, and if I may asky, why? Do you find that if you like someone more, like an instant connection, the service is better or is it the same for everyone?
I'd love to hear from customer side as well, have you ever sent a sw home, and if so, why? How did she react?
I'm very much curious about your answers and stories.
Hello Max69 and welcome to the SV Forum.
And way to go to ask a legit and serious question with the first one. that is rare, indeed.
I think to make this discussion properly structured we have to distinguish between the experiences and POVs from clients and also sexworkers. In fact both will at some point experience rejection. Sexworkers probably on a daily basis.
As far as I am concerned from the POV of a client I can say that it happens and the older I get, the more often it seems to happen.
But I don't think my age is the problem at all. I will elaborate soon and give examples of what happened to me?
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - PunterKing - 06-25-2024
I always try to be as respectful with other people as possible, but in some cases, I also had to cancel my escort booking. I understand that such situations can be a huge loss for the sex worker, but I did this only in very shady cases. When booking, I always say that I am sticking to the lady whom I choose from the place’s website or from other sources. Of course, it has happened that something came up and the selected lady had to cancel the meeting, but then the agency called me back and we found another girl. This can happen to anyone.
But when you open the door and there is a totally different woman, it is a scam. Especially when the escort girl looks totally different from your type or worse, she looks significantly less attractive than the selected one. I am willing to pay more for the best and most skilled ladies, and when I book a girl, I don’t want to see a worse alternative. This is not only about the optics, I often choose girls based on other punters’ recommendations. And I don’t want to do experiments with other girls, especially when I was not the one who selected her, and the agency tries to fool me.
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - Milfhunter69 - 06-25-2024
Me as a customer I fortunately didnt have any bad experiences for now. Maybe because I always do a lot of research before booking a sw and Im avoiding sws where there are red flags and many bad reviews.
Regarding the experience, sometimes there is a great connection and in these cases the experience is definitely better and more natural. There were also times when there was no connection but the sw was professional and therefore the experience was good enough, I didnt have to send anyone home.
Im not that experienced yet and didnt have many different sws. I know there are many unprofessional ones out there and many customers with bad experiences thats why I think its just important to always do some research before ordering an sw.
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - firestorm2012 - 06-25-2024
But in theory what would need to happen so that you send a girl away who you booked for escort to the hotel or your home?
And when at a club like GT, Babylon or Maxim, how do tell the ladies off who approach but who you are not interested in?
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - PunterKing - 06-25-2024
(06-25-2024, 11:26 AM)Milfhunter69 Wrote: Me as a customer I fortunately didnt have any bad experiences for now. Maybe because I always do a lot of research before booking a sw and Im avoiding sws where there are red flags and many bad reviews.
Regarding the experience, sometimes there is a great connection and in these cases the experience is definitely better and more natural. There were also times when there was no connection but the sw was professional and therefore the experience was good enough, I didnt have to send anyone home.
Im not that experienced yet and didnt have many different sws. I know there are many unprofessional ones out there and many customers with bad experiences thats why I think its just important to always do some research before ordering an sw.
Unfortunately, we can't eliminate the risk of getting bad service, even if we do very detailed research. Sometimes things just happen
I am also a big fan of other punters' reviews, you can find real treasures by reading them.
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - PunterKing - 06-25-2024
(06-25-2024, 12:07 PM)firestorm2012 Wrote: But in theory what would need to happen so that you send a girl away who you booked for escort to the hotel or your home?
And when at a club like GT, Babylon or Maxim, how do tell the ladies off who approach but who you are not interested in?
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I think the girls in the best sex clubs or sauna clubs know how to handle rejections. Of course, we should treat them as human beings and not as mere pieces of flesh. I know you know what I mean. Only idiots get angry when the girls approach, it is their job to try to attract as many guests as possible. When I'm not interested, I simply tell the girl, Thanks, I'm waiting for someone else. Just this simple way, and they always understand it.
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - firestorm2012 - 06-25-2024
(06-25-2024, 12:13 PM)PunterKing Wrote:(06-25-2024, 12:07 PM)firestorm2012 Wrote: But in theory what would need to happen so that you send a girl away who you booked for escort to the hotel or your home?
And when at a club like GT, Babylon or Maxim, how do tell the ladies off who approach but who you are not interested in?
We posted simultaneously
I guess you know what you are doing. Experience definitely helps. But those who are new and not experienced should know that there is something that you never say: "Maybe later" is a red flag and the girls will react accordingly because they know it is probably a big far lie.
I think the best thing you can do is to be honest and tell the girl that you have another type or that you have your eyes already set on another girl. This is smooth and will not hurt anybody's feelings
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - maximwien - 06-25-2024
As an employee, I would like to speak from our experience at the club
I would like to divide this into firstly, why might our Maxim Girls reject guests & what is it like when the girls get a rebuff, so to speak.
So, why do some ladies reject guests?
Our observations show that Romanian SW, for example, do not want to go to the room with Romanian guests. Or, for example, African girls reject African guests.
Another reason is that there are also guests who are already "known" and are not very popular. There can be various reasons for this, such as rude behavior or a very big ...
If a guest does not pay attention to his hygiene, he should not be surprised if he is rejected by a girl. However, this problem can be easily solved, as showers and/or bathtubs are available in each of our rooms.
Another reason could be that a guest who has always chosen the same lady, i.e. a regular girl, is not being approached by other girls. Purely to avoid drama within the group of women.
Now, what happens when a girl is rejected?
Especially in a club, it is normal for a girl to be rejected by a guest, which is not a bad thing. Maybe the guest isn't ready yet or she's not his type. The girls can handle this without any problems and it's particularly not a problem for us.
What is a problem, however, is the way in which guests reject a lady. Unfortunately, there are guests who treat girls disrespectfully, especially when they reject them. And here we can say from experience that they are often businessmen in suits.
We do not tolerate disrespectful behavior from either the girls or the guests. In such a case, it is also our duty as a club to take immediate action.
That's why I think it's appropriate to mention here that we greatly appreciate friendly and polite behavior.
I hope I have been able to give a few examples of why girls in particular would refuse a guest.
RE: How do you deal with rejection? - Max69 - 07-09-2024
Hey everyone,
I'd like to thank everyone who has taken the time to answer my question and give me new food for thought.
